Coping With Lockdown
A Lockdown Wedding in Felixstowe
When we heard about Annette and John, we just fell in love with them and couldn’t wait to share their story with you all. Here’s Annette to tell the tale of how their love story started…
John and I met quite by chance on the Felixstowe prom last year. We both used to walk the prom on our own every day and for several months we would just say hi and pass the time of day as we passed by each other going in opposite directions.
One day towards the end of August, as I joined the prom from the bottom of Bent Hill, John was walking in the same direction. That day, we had our walk together, and found that we had plenty in common and the same sense of humour. At the end of the walk, we arranged to meet up the following day for another walk together, and as they say, the rest is history!
We began spending time together on a daily basis and love very soon blossomed for both of us (although John maintains that for him it was love at first sight!).
By the end of October John had proposed, although by then I think we both knew it was a foregone conclusion.
We had planned to marry on the 28th May at St John’s Church with Reverend Andrew Dotchin officiating, but that was of course prior to Covid19 and the lockdown, and our plans (along with many other people’s plans) had to be put on hold.
However, Reverend Dotchin came up with a lovely idea so that we could still mark the proposed date of the 28th May, by having a socially distanced Betrothal Service. This is an unofficial ceremony in which one makes a promise to marry at a future date. We had a lovely day which could almost be described as a dress rehearsal for the real thing. The ceremony was held in my sister Jo’s garden, and she did us proud with her efforts of decorating the garden in the appropriate colour scheme which was absolutely magical.
Obviously, we have been avidly watching the news for information on when weddings would be allowed to resume after lockdown, and we are very glad to say that we got married officially this morning at St. John’s Church at 11.30am. We were beyond excited! 😍😍
Because of the Betrothal Service which took place in May, we already have a gorgeous collection of photos.
A big thank you for the photos must to to our good friend Fran Comer who did a wonderful job of being the official photographer.
Annette and John
On behalf of us all at The Felixstowe Magazine, HUGE congratulations to Annette and John… your story is adorable and you’re a truly lovely couple! x
It’s been such a pleasure to see so many articles come in from local people doing their part to make a difference. Though lockdown is going through the process of lifting, we’d still like to continue to shine a light on these local gems. This article is by the lovely local lady, Bev Lambert…
During lockdown I have been making various sewing items. I have donated 242 face coverings to people/key workers in my community. I have since been selling these to the wider community. I have been making a number of little bears ‘(as below) which have been donated to many people within my community just to bring a smile on a face. I have also donated some of the below pocket pillows which I make to sell.
My sewing page can be found on Facebook/Twitter & Instagram “Berty Lamb Handmade“. I make various items using my sewing and embroidery machines.
I am also the founder of Over the Rainbow Children’s Charity, a charity to support local children across Suffolk who are living with a life limiting or serious illness, by providing specialist equipment to help day to day living. The charity is run 100% by volunteers. I also made this large key worker hanger and raised £100.00 through a silent auction. I donated the £100.00 to Captain Tom Moore’s JustGiving page. The winner if the auction was Glebe House Residential Home in Hollesley. I have donated various sewn items to Glebe House including some lavender filled hearts which I initialled with each of the residents first names. The staff all received a Ginger Ginger key fobs, including care staff, kitchen staff, maintenance staff etc all key fobs were relevant to the jobs they did within the home.
Thank you to all the key workers, charities and local people out there. We’ve been in this together and it’s be an honour to be part of the positivity.
Bev Lambert
My Grandma would have turned 100 on 14th June 2020, however she sadly passed away in 2010. When I was a child we would visit her, my Grandad and also my Nanna all who lived in Felixstowe. We would build sandcastles on the beach, get fish and chips from Cordy’s and eat homemade scones in her back garden with my cousins.
She and my Grandad lived in the town for over 50 years. I am now a mother of two small children who visit their Grandma and Grandad amongst other relatives who now also live in the town. On our visits we build sandcastles and get fish and chips at The Alex or watch the big ships come in and out down at The Viewing Point with an ice cream.
I am not a local but my family heritage is rooted in Felixstowe. During lockdown many things have happened both positive and negative, I want to say thank you for the positives.
The wonderful community of Felixstowe have supported my sister and I by helping our parents who started shielding at the end of February. On the 13th June I spoke to my Mum and she said she felt too unwell to visit my Grandma’s grave at the Memorial Garden of St John’s Church. She was very sad to not be able to commemorate and spend some time at the gardens. I knew where to ask for help. The community of Felixstowe had overwhelmed us with their empathy by laying flowers in the gardens on the behalf of my Mum and for my Grandma Leonora.
If you are sitting down reading this, drinking tea from a china cup and saucer and debating over a KitKat or a slice of homemade fruitcake, you may have known my Grandma, Leonora Bailey or at least you would probably have got on very well with her.
Thank you to all that were so kind to lay flowers on her grave on our behalf. We hope that we will be able to see you all soon, when we can travel once again to build sandcastles and eat ice cream on your lovely beach.
Yours sincerely Livvy Evans and Sophie Lewis WellsGranddaughters of Leonora and Phillip Bailey, Daughter of Kathy and Chris Lewis
Flowers placed by the community including the lovely Patricia Ranson who took this photo. 
Flowers placed by Rev. Andrew Dotchin 
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